Christmas gift ideas for a guy you just started dating
Gift giving, whether at Christmas, Valentine’s Day or a birthday, can be fraught with insecurity and peril, especially when you’re at the beginning of a new relationship – or worse, are still in the “are we/aren’t we” stage of dating.
It’s a delicate balancing act: if you spend too much, too early in the relationship, you risk coming off as though you’re starting to get clingy and desperate.
Even as adults we can’t help but feel that delicious anticipation when handed a package with our name on it. On the other hand, what you give really is important. Example: A sampling of chocolates from places you’ve visited around the world; a copy of your favorite book, with a note about why it’s meaningful to you; a special meal you prepare from scratch. You're new beau's birthday is coming up, but even with six dates under your belt, you barely know the guy — let alone where the relationship's headed.Are you really expected to whip out the wrapping paper and ribbons?As exciting as this newfound love affair is, suddenly you realize Christmas is right around the corner. With that in mind, why not do some research to see what’s coming to town and surprise your new someone with tickets? Plus, it’s proven that people who spend their time and money on experiences rather than things are way happier, so get happy with your person! We’re not talking about re-gifting that one random bottle of red blend you’ve had sitting in your bar forever. By now, you’re probably privy to your new boo’s go-to drink order, so pay homage to that by gifting them with the ingredients for said drink or something just as fun. You know — what you both like, don’t like, and can’t wait to see.