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Don’t take an introvert’s silence as a means of their disinterest in you.

If anything, it means they’re comfortable being around you.

Imagine a horizontal line with introversion at one end and extroversion on the other.

Most of us fall somewhere between those two extremes, expressing the traits to different degrees and in different ways.

For example, your flavor of introversion might be, “Weekends are for family,” while another person’s might be, “Weekends are for solitude,” and a third person’s might be, “Weekends are for my three closest friends.” Your style of introversion might be “I could spend every night with that one special person,” while person’s might be, “I’m OK spending only weekends together.” Your introverted way of dealing with problems might be, “Let’s sit down right now with a bottle of wine and hash this out until it’s fixed,” while your partner’s might be, “Let me think about it for a few days and get back to you.” And, of course, introversion is only one small part of all the moving parts that make us who we are.

While it is a handy and nonthreatening label, introversion reason someone is seeking space in your relationship.

It’s glaringly obvious that the people giving this advice aren’t introverts themselves and don’t have the slightest clue about introversion.

Find out when they like to be alone and respect that time.

The problem seems to be that we understand it too much. Accepting our own need for space and the similar or conflicting needs of other people, and respecting our own and other people’s various ways of interacting with the world—it’s all good.

We wind up pulling away completely from each other, and giving each other too much room. It leads us to a level of acceptance that can only enhance our relationships and our humanity.

And remember — most relationships do not see the light of day because one out of the two in the relationship does not really know what he or she wants.

With the introvert guy beside you, you don’t have to worry about this.

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